Wednesday, January 30, 2013

Walking by faith, without any sight...

Daniel and I are about to embark on an completely new endeavor.  He has a full time job mostly from home, which is a huge blessing.   We don't have benefits, though, because he is "self employed"...but still, it is a blessing!  I work in a similar situation, but I have to go to the courthouse for my job.  The point of this blog is...

I am starting my own cafe! 

Most of you know how I have been catering special events for the church, out of the church for a while. I love doing that...most of you also know, I worked for Starbucks for ~2 years. I loved most of my time at Starbucks, the cafe setting, coffee, good food, relaxing atmosphere..so I am very excited to announce:

Hidden Riches Cafe


Dream come true!   ...well, mostly...(my dream would include everything I need is free and no paperwork!)

I will hopefully keep my job, very part time, for a while...


There are sooooo many things I need, but prayer most of all!  I am going to be buying foods, equipment, etc...I have to get my business licesne, DBA, liability insurance...and a whole mess of things that I have noooo idea about!  The building that I am renting the space out of, wants me there ASAP!  Which is lovely, but I am feeling a bit overwhelmed...I have all the resources I need for the food part, but I need a business license and DBA first, THEN, I need to fill out a whole mess of forms for the food distributor...the list goes on and on! 


So I am asking for prayer! 


I am sooo nervous about the money...I may not cut a check for myself for a really long time.  Daniel's full time job is okay, but on the whole, cannot pay all the bills indefinitely.  We are in the middle of buying a house also (solely on his income, not including mine)...the house, including utilities and such, will actually be cheaper than our rent!  The house we are trying for also has a large greenhouse on the property!  YAY for growing our own veggies!  The building that I am renting out of is being quite generous about helping me as much as possible so that I'll be successful!  I am thankful for Christian business partners who are generous and patient!

My mom and dad are helping me with some of the finances, and workers...Daddy literally said, "I will buy a beautiful espresso bar, but you have to teach me to barist!" I am going to train my father in the intricasies of a cappucino...did I mention I need prayer?!  :-P  I love my daddy! 

So my matters of prayer are:
  • legalities-pray that all the paperwork will go smoothly and quickly
  • money- that I can start this business off RIGHT and that we are able to afford everything
  • nerves- everybody gets tense in times like this, and I pray we are still a happy family for grand opening
  • our testimony- I desperately want to be a godly example for the community through the cafe...Christian staff, high quality foods, not being a corrupt company that just wants to take advantage of the average person...going the extra mile!
  • sanity- I don't want to give my whole life to the cafe, while neglecting the Lord and my husband.  Pray I am able to prioritize and that the Lord provides the right people to help keep me sane!
Please like my facebook page (facebook.com/beccascookin) to stay up to date with how things are going!

If you know of anything restaurant or cafe related that I could buy, rent, or information I  need to know, please let me know..every bit of information helps! 

Thank you all for reading (and hopefully praying),
Becca H.

Tuesday, January 22, 2013

In sickness without wealth...

So, as many of you know already, I was sick...from Sunday until today....I should be fine by tomorrow, as I can already feel that I'm on the mend as of early this afternoon.

I am RARELY sick....I mean RARELY!  I often, (foolishly), boast that I "never get sick"....so this was somewhat humbling for me to not only be "sick" but have to miss church, Meal Day Mondays, and call out sick this morning from my courthouse job.

I burnt the candles at both ends for the last several months, often working 7 days a week, not getting enough sleep, doing things every night(Bible study, out with friends, game nights, choir, etc)....well, this past Saturday, I went to the Highland Games in Central Florida...it was a lovely time with Daniel and our friends....got to try haggis, etc...at 2am on Sunday morning, I woke up coughing, with a severe swollen throat, and a fever...So I am not going to blame the Highland Games, but my rather overcrowded schedule that I keep :-(

Anyways...I often have people ask me what I take when I am sick....there are some prerequisites for what I use:  has to be inexpensive (we do not have insurance), has to be harmful for the pathogen, and helpful for the body.  So here's my "go to" list of awesome, inexpensive, home remedies:

1.  Bragg's Apple Cider Vinegar- it kills the bad bacteria-like in a sore throat/intestinal problem...but it also helps to alkalize the blood stream, which in turn, helps to keep your blood cells(both white and red) working properly...red won't release oxygen into other cells in the wrong pH and white blood cells deform into the wrong shape in the wrong pH and will not attack invading pathogens.  Bacteria also do not survive in an alkaline blood stream, but do just fine in an acidic one!  (I know, vinegar is acidic, but when it goes through your blood stream, it causes an alkaline reaction....biochemistry is a beautiful thing!    Here's the type mentioned: Bragg's ACV  It is now available at most grocery stores in the natural section!  Heinz/store brand WILL NOT WORK!  the "mother" or cloudiness in the vinegar is what has all the nutrients! The distilled stuff is great for cleaning, not for ingesting!  here's a bunch of FAQ's for ACV :-) ACV FAQ's
                 To use:  mix 2 tbsp of ACV with 2 tbsp of water and gargle several times a day....OR, you can drink it....at a different ratio....put 2-3 tablespoons of ACV, 1-2 teaspoons of local, raw, honey, and as much water as you need to fill you glass....drink it 3-4 times a day.  (I do NOT use honey in mine, but I am quite accustomed to the flavor of ACV)

2.  Zinc-  zinc is very helpful to the immune system...here's a helpful link :zinc-cold and flu helper!  This is the brand I use: Garden of Life Zinc I like this brand because it also has vitamin C in it!  (it should also be available at your local health food store....for about 9 or 10 dollars.  If not locally, online for about the same price)

3.  Echinacea Goldenseal-  Echinacea has been widely recognized for immune support for years and years!  My mom gave it to me as a small child!  You can get it as a tea, tincture, capsule, tablet....etc....I get it as a tablet with goldenseal, which has amazing sinus powers!  I get them as tablets, but here is a link for the capsules: echincea goldenseal goodness...again, probably available at your local health food store!  I also use the tea quite often(It tastes similar to peppermint tea...with a little raw honey, I have never heard of any harsh complaints...even when I was a kid I liked it enough!):  awesomesauce tea  Traditional Medicinals has a wide variety of teas for many different uses...I HIGHLY recommend them for any of your tea needs!  My grocery store, even my Walmart now carries this tea!  Very easy to get ahold of!

To be clear, I want to summarize that you probably spend 25+ dollars for your COPAY at a doctor's office...~10$ for zinc, ~5$ for the tea, and ~5$ for the ACV, so far...this is CHEAPER than going to the doctor!

4.  Sleep- you MUST get some sleep...I couldn't breathe well last night, so I slept terribly...which made me feel awful this morning....I ended up crashing on the couch a few hours later...when my sinuses finally cleared(hint, I didn't take echinacea/goldenseal in the beginning....which I should have, but I couldn't find mine and money is super tight right now, so I couldn't go buy any, but never fear, I did find it yesterday...and have promtly taken quite a bit)

5.  Lemon water-  Hot, or cold, lemon water is pretty tasty, and very good for you!  The acid helps with alkalizing just like the ACV does, bacteria REALLY don't like lemon very much....AND lemons are cheap!  They are also high in vitamin C!  (I recommend organic, fresh squeezed lemons for maximum nutrition.  Conventional lemons often have lacquer on them, "food grade paint", wax, and an abundance of pesticides...organic lemons are pretty easy to get at almost any grocery store these days)

6.  Tea-  I love tea....anybody who knows me well, knows that I am a tea SNOB!  I love my organic loose leaf teas, fair trade, etc....herbal, green, and black all have great healing properties (I might recommend getting decaf if sleeping is a problem right now)...personally, I like earl grey or assam black tea when I am sick.  :-)  But I often have mostly green tea around....:-)  high antioxidants!  WAHOO!  And the caffeine helps the low energy levels that often are a result of illness.

WHAT NOT TO DO:
-1.  Stay clear of DAIRY!  I love my ice cream when I am sick...but I do not eat it during illness for many reasons....largely because it is a mucogen and inflammatory in nature.  You do NOT was extra mucus or inflammation while you are sick...no bueno!

-2.  SUGAR!  And varieties therein!  High fructose corn syrup lowers the immune system by like a gagillion(5 reasons to stop drinking soda)....sugar also causes a more acidic reaction in the blood stream(which remember, causes the blood cells to NOT work well....it also allows the bad bacteria an awesome food source to live on!  We all know that sugar gives us energy...imagine what it does to sneaky pathogens!)

-3.  Comfort foods....I know that the only thing you want to eat is comfort food when you're sick....or nothing at all.  That's not good.  You need to stay nourished!  Eating easily digested, nutritious food is important!  A good, homemade soup is probably the best bet!  The nutrition from HOMEMADE soup is achieved from the BONES in the chicken!  The marrow cooks out into the soup and gives your body lots of great nutrients!  Also, the veggies give great support too!  My mom used to make Italian wedding soup momma style!  Homemade stock, organic spinach, little pastini, and meatballs(beef, turkey, chicken...or a mix of any or all three...whatever she had in the house :-)  But, you have to make your own broth....the bones need to cook for several hours to get the full nutrition...if you feel like a cold is coming on, get your chicken(free-range/organic is best...local even better) before you are ill, and put it in the crock pot with filtered water over night....that way your stock is ready when you need it!  Here's some chicken soup recipes.
-4.  As much as soda will seem to help the stomach....it is the WORST thing you could possibly drink for your stomach...the HFCS will hurt the immune system drastically and "sugar-free" is just as bad if not worse!(Note: often flavored waters, Mio, and Crystal light have the same toxic makeup...these are not healthy alternatives)  If you must have something "bubbly"...I would recommend Blue Sky soda or a variety of other natural sodas...even mixing some organic cherry, grape, blueberry, or pomegranate, etc. juice with club soda would be a better option.  See the link under -2, if you need a reminder why not to drink soda!

This is all I got for now...sorry for such a long blog...I hope it was informative!  :-D
Stay warm, healthy, and well fed!

Love,
Becca

Sunday, December 30, 2012

Health Rant #1 of 1zillion: baby products....seriously?

So, here's health rant #1 of 1zillion: baby products...seriously?!

So here's what started all of this....

When I was a child, my mom would always MAKE baby wipes when we went to baby showers together and would include the recipe as part of the gift....I thought it was a bit strange, but my mom does unique, strange, yet, awesome things....I thought this was one of them.

I have had a lot of friends, my sister-in-law, and my sister have babies in the last 7 years or so....I have vested interest in babies...and besides, they are our future!

And then, Daniel and I bought a new car, and part of the "vow" to keep it clean, I suggested keeping baby wipes in the car so we can wipe up any smudges, spills, stains, stickiness, etc.  immediately instead of "finding time" to clean later (part of the "routine" resolution).  So, as I always do, I checked the ingredients on the baby wipes...(I know how bad certain toxins can be, especially parabens and such.  I use paraben free makeup, skin care, shampoo/conditioner....I am pretty careful about avoiding them for a REASON....cancerous tumors are primarily made up of parabens....so you really don't want to put carcinogens ON your skin to be absorbed...or simply made into skin cancer for that matter! ) So....bringing it all back, I checked the ingredients on the "sensitive" wipes because I often get rashes from harsher cleaners.  There were not 1, but 2 types or more, of parabens IN THE WIPES!  WHY IN THE WORLD WOULD YOU PUT CARCINOGENS IN BABY WIPES!?  For CRYING in the MUD!  Now, this doesn't mean that you, your kid, or anyone you know will develop cancer from baby wipes, but seriously, this is something to consider....I don't want them on MY skin, why would I touch them in order to put them on my child's!?  

So to continue my mother's intuitive awesomeness, I am posting my google search for homemade wipes...the first 4(at least) check out good...keep in mind, if you choose to do this, please buy good lotions and oils....every skin product I own, I have checked carefully...be careful, parabens sneak in everywhere(ethylparaben, methylparaben, polyparaben, etc.)!  My essante site has some great essential oils and baby products(lotion, baby wash, etc): essante site      google search   
Even a vitamin E oil that I had purchased for my cuticles had parabens in it...deoderant, soap, lotion, shampoo, etc. are often likely to have parabens and many other toxins.  To find out more about those kind of toxins, please watch this video....it can also be found on the bottom of my essante site(link above) listed as "the toxic truth".  

Thanks for reading health rant #1 of 1zillion....tune in next time for something that excites me...positively or negatively....

Wednesday, December 26, 2012

New Year's resolutions...

I hate New Year's resolutions...I really do!  So what?!  A new year has started...BIG WHOOP!  Another year has passed where I have felt like a failure in life...not meeting the expectations I have laid for myself.  

However, I find myself wanting to do a few resolutions...I want to better myself for the Lord and His purpose for me.  Whether or not you agree or believe in "religion", wanting to be a better person is a good thing that I want to do.

Here's a few things I'm looking at doing this new year:

  1. Losing some weight...at 146 lbs, I am the heaviest I have ever been...lack of exercise, stressful times, careless eating, and such have added on the pounds!  I would like to lose about 20 pounds...to start off, I am doing a cleanse through my company Beyond Organics...here's more information:Suero cleanse  Hopefully I can loose a few pounds through that, then keep eating clean 
  2. Starting my business, for REAL!  I want to get my catering license, I would even like to start my own restaurant, Lord willing!
  3. MOVE OUT!  I desperately want a house....it is partially out of jealousy, partially out of "need"....I cook so much and the apartment is just too full of cooking supplies, food, and of course, Daniel's board game collection.  We don't have a washer or dryer either, which is just...awesome...we get to pay 3$ a load of laundry....and the washers often smell, and the dryers overheat, and sometimes a tired neighbor takes your laundry and returns it a day or two later to the laundromat....yes, I want a house...need or not, I want to get a house while the market is good!
  4. Go to Romania for my 3rd trip there.  I really want to go back to Romania this year with my church on a missions trip!  
  5. Get pregnant....CRAZY I know, we've been married over a year now...providing we can get a bigger place....it wouldn't be such a bad idea....nope, we aren't financially ready...in fact, we probably aren't ready at all...but we would love our child and raise it as well as we could.  There's also some hurdles to get through, so it won't be "easy" for us...prayers appreciated!
  6. Get my life into a good routine...I don't clean the cramped and crowded apt. as often as I should...my work and catering schedule is ever changing, I'm either exhausted, or just not home because of being so busy!  I either want to work out and can't because of sheer exhaustion, or get to working out at a decent pace, and then my schedule gets nuts again, cracking down on that will be hard!  Ahhh...self discipline!
  7. Spend more time with my husband....Daniel's main love language is quality time...and the one thing I have very little of, is time.  He loves to play video and board games with me, I love to walk in the local parks, or ride my bike....we definitely need more quality time together!  
  8. Get back involved with "the arts".  I used to play the piano (quite well actually) and I love ballet as a child...I would also love voice lessons.  Part of good jobs, good schedule, etc...falls under this...if I can get control of the rest of those things, I can get back into some more "fun" things :-)
  9. Get my health coach certificate...yes, I have a science degree...I would really love a health coach certificate to help people get healthier!  (and get paid for it!)
  10. And most importantly, really seek the Lord!  Seek His purpose for my life....pray...not so much to talk to Him, but to listen!  Get deeper in the Word....become a better follower of Christ and a better testimony to Him!
Here's my 10 resolutions....take 'em or leave 'em...